Discipline in the Home

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By being a _<U>discipline</U>___ person.</div> <div> There are two things that are out of control with many parents:</div> <div> A- _<U>tongue</U>________ B- _<U>temper</U>______</div> <div> Parents don't _<U>demand</U>____ respect but _<U>earn</U>__ respect.</div> <div> Why do many parents have a hard time with discipline??</div> <div> 1. Too _<U>busy</U>___</div> <div> 2. Too many _<U>hobbies</U>__</div> <div> Disciplining children is _<U>hard</U>_ _<U>work</U>__.</div> <div> Why do we discipline?????  To help our children become _<U>self</U>__-_<U>discipline</U>__ so that they can live _<U>without</U>_ _<U>us</U>__.</div> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <B>Guidelines</B></div> <div> 1. Both parents should _<U>agree</U>_ on the form of _<U>discipline</U>_.</div> <div> 2. Never when _<U>anger</U>__.</div> <div> 3. Give __<U>clear</U>_______ instructions.</div> <div> 4. Be _<U>sure</U>___ they are _<U>listening</U>__.</div> <div> 5. Don't _<U>nag</U>__.</div> <div> 6. Be a man of your _<U>work</U>________.</div> <div> 7. Don't _<U>yell</U>______ or _<U>scream</U>_________.</div> <div> 8. Be _<U>consistent</U>________.</div> <div> 9. Be sure you have the _<U>facts</U>____ first.</div> <div> 10. Have pre-_<U>determined</U>__ _<U>permits</U>_ for offenses which _<U>all</U>__ have _<U>agreed</U>__ on.</div> <div> 11. Be sure that the children learn that _<U>action</U>__ have _<U>consequences</U>_.</div> <div> 12. Never allow _<U>word</U>_ or _<U>action</U>_ that give the message of _<U>defense</U>__ or _<U>disrespect</U>_.</div> <div> 13. _<U>Everyone</U>__ in your home is _<U>under</U>__ your _<U>authority</U>___.</div> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <B>God is a _</B><B><U>model</U></B><B>__ parent!!!</B></div> <bR> <div> His dealings with Adam and Eve:</div> <div> A. He met their _<U>needs</U>__.</div> <div> B. He gave _<U>clear</U>_ _<U>instruction</U>_.</div> <div> C.  He _<U>told</U>_ them about their _<U>sin</U>_ and _<U>corrected</U>_ them.</div> <bR> <div> <B>God did it all _</B><B><U>right</U></B><B>__ and they _</B><B><U>still</U></B><B>  _</B><B><U>disobey</U></B><B>__.</B></div> </td> </tr></table></body>