Courtney Marie Wafstet

We have for a while lost one who is dear to us, And we all feel the loss. But it is only for a time, and we will lose our sorrow.

There is a reason for being here, and a reason for going. The Other Side, the Places Beyond, Are warm, pleasing and beautiful with all ills gone, and youth anew.

There is a reason for leaving, when the purpose of this life is done. We must all journey beyond to pause, to rest, and to wait for those who are loved, In a place far from the cares of this world, with happiness and strength renewed. For dying is only a mode of forgetting, a way of rest, a way of returning to the Eternal Source, however we may see It.

It is said in ancient lore -

"Arrayed in some new fleshly disguise,
Another mother gives birth.
With sturdier limbs and brighter brain,
The old soul takes the road again".

You came and touched so many hearts
In so many different ways.
You gave so much, and asked very little in return.
There is an emptiness as if a part of us is missing,
But we am sure with time you will show us how to be whole again.
We know you are safe now, and nothing can harm you.
Remember, although we're apart,
We will always be together.

Life and death are one, as the river and the sea are one. For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind, And to melt in the sun?

What is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from it's restless tides That it may rise, and expand, and seek it's Gods unencumbered?

Only when you drink from the river of silence
Shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountaintop,
Then shall you begin to climb.
And when the Earth has claimed your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

Courtney, Fate was most unkind,
Gave you to us, and then took you away.
Yet from you so much love was spread
Everywhere you were seen to tread.
We'd like to think where'er you roam
In the new world you'll call your home,
There'll be no more pain, no more ills,
No more of this life's bitter pills.
Forgive us if today we're sad,
For we loved you so much.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle Autumn's rain.
When you wake in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die.


COURTNEY'S OBITUARY: Courtney Marie Wafstet, age 16, died on the morning of Thursday, September 14, 2000, in tragic accident at home. Courtney, born February 13, 1984, was a junior at Kamiak High School. She is survived by her parents, Tim and Cindi; her brother, Chris; grandparents, William C. Wafstet, Mr. and Mrs. Del Underwood, and Mrs. and Mrs. Dale Dean. She is survived by many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and devoted friends. She also leaves her six beloved cats. Courtney was active in dance, participating in five dance classes at a local dance studio. She was also active in two church youth groups. Funeral services will be held Tuesday, September 19th at 4pm at Edmonds Church of God, 8224 220th SW, Edmonds. A memorial service will be held Wednesday, September 20th at 7pm at Family Life Center, 4424 Chennault Beach Road, Mukilteo. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you send a donation the Courtney Wafstet Memorial College Scholarship Fund to 1720 Washington Avenue, Mukilteo, WA 98275. Courtney, in her very short life, touched many people. She cared deeply about her friends and family. We have lost an angel on earth, and miss her so very much.

Blessed be

...But to be born again, you must die.