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During ABBA 6
1980
In May Frida goes out alone for an evening.
May 19, 1980. Going to Görel Johnsons wedding to Anders Hanser and afterwards hugging the bride and groom.
Frida on Benny's yacht. They enjoyed boating very much.
Agnetha Benny and Frida August at the Tomas Ledin concert.
On Applouso in Spain
The winner Takes it All video July 12
Super Trouper video Oct., 3, 1980
1981
In the 1st week of February 1981 Frida and Benny announce they 
are seperating.
Benny has fallen in love with another woman, Mona Nörklit, 37.
Mona has a 12 year old son from an earlier marriage.
Frida is 35 years old at this time.
*It turns out that Mona was the sister of Lillebil Ankarcrona a close friend of Frida,
And at a party in Sept.1980 Benny and Mona found they were attracted to
each other and they had been seeing each other romanticaly ever since.
It turns out that Frida and Benny had been to a marriage counselor but it didn't seem to help.
Benny's feelings for Mona became stronger and his feelings for Frida had ended.
Benny had to tell Frida he was in love with another woman.
Frida was now once again dealt a life altering blow.
As the public found out the confidence Frida had found began to disappear.
Seeing the headlines everywhere talking about her divorce was unnerving.
Before April, Frida had a new man in her life. Bertil "Bobo" Hjert. He was a billionaire that had co-founded Scandecor,
a company that sold posters and he also owned a magazine called "Chic."
In early April Frida went to Eleuthera for a fashion shoot/vacation for Chic magazine.
Frida was in an ad campaingn for Chic magazine In 1981. She had gone to Eleuthera in the
Bahamas for a vacationduring the spring time and while there did this magazine shoot.
(pics and info from Mickory's ABBA blog) The man she is pictured with is named King Bee.
Frida said of her new relationship,"I'm together with a man I love and it's a free relationship,
free of demands, and that's the way I like it."
2 fan pics
April 27 ABBA tapes a show in Stockholm for the American Dick Cavett Show.
Rehearsel for Dick Cavett Show Getting ready for the show.
By the time the Cavett show was taped, Frida had already found a new man.
But she was not going to reveal his name. They were in love and had a relationship that had no demands on it.
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In August she co hosts a 4 part variety show on TV called Lite Grand i orat with Claes af Geijerstam.
"It was Claes (Clabbe af Geijerstam) who contacted me just after Christmas and
asked if I would consider it. And to be honest, it took a couple of months of persuasion.
At first I was a little scared. But I do trust Claes a lot so finally I thought, why not,
and I said yes. Now I think it's the greatest thing I've ever done. I have been involved
from the beginning and has been given a chance to give my input on how the show
should turn out. I've been able to coordinate a lot of things and even choose some
of the songs. Yes, I've been a part of everything that has lead to this show. I find it
especially stimulating that the show isn't only based on solo performances,
but instead the guests are involved in almost every number."
She even wore one of the costumes from the last ABBA album. This outfit was auctioned
in 2000 when Frida had an auction of her personal possesions in Misery, Switzerland.
In September recording began for the Visitors album and it was finished by November.
Recalls Frida, "When you've gone through a seperation , like all of us had at that time,
it puts a certain mood on the work. Something dissappeared that was so fundamental
for the joy in our songs, that had always been there before."
The fun was pretty much gone now. And ABBA had always maintained that when it wasn't fun
any more, they would end it.
"I know that we talked it over and Björn asked me if it was sometimes too emotional
to sing those lyrics. But I mean that was also, in a way, a challenge. To be able to put
your emotions into the songs and lyrics that you sing." ( From The ABBA Story - The Winner Takes it All)
"This was a very sad time for me personally , because I split up with Benny...
We still went on because we wanted to finish The Visitors album....We never
mentioned it but there was a certain atmosphere between the four of us."
"All my saddness was in that song." refering to "When all is Said and Done"
Observers of the making of this last album remarked that it seemed the spark was gone and the members
of ABBA were just going through the motions now.
"You had the feeling that 'this won't last very much longer' said Berka Bergkvist.
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